Intra and Interpersonal Skills

like a shot I am going to stack away what I have learnt in IIC. I have several skills that would be profitable for my future, such as concentrate on positives when I am in pernicious moods, self-disclosure and with child(p) positive response to unfavorable judgment for better communication. However, these are non the close important aspects for me. This is because I cherish more(prenominal) on relationships. Besides, I dont have favorable relationship with family members. Also, friends cannot always be with me. Therefore, dear is the only thing I survey in my entire life. However, there are lots of barriers on my screw path.My lovers upright left me very soon and verbalise you are too in effect(p) for me. I wondered if it is just simply an excuse for break up with me. After the Developing and Enriching advert Relationship lesson, I realized the cerebrate that none of them want to stay with me and commented I am too good for them. This is because I am having obsessi ve love with them, giving them too much love and so oblige. This is one of the obstacles for love to the lecture notes. On the other hand, we didnt have a mutual direction for our future. We had intimacy and peevishness but no commitment was involved. The kickoff thing I have to do is self-love.This is because obsessive love only gives pressure to the other person. To have a water-loving relationship, loving yourself is essential. Then, I have to end a long-term involvement with that person. I used to have romantic loves. However, that is not I need, what I need is the all over love. According to Sternbergs Triangular scheme of Love, consummate love includes intimacy, passion and commitment. I will be open and right to let my relationship grows healthy. Learning to love doesnt just happen if we stand the right person. I confide if you want to have a good result, effort is necessary for it, even love.